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5/15/2007 Paul Johnson remembersP'ville and Cecil's and Cecil Johnson are important memories to many of us who grew up there. I visited Cecil just days before he died in the nursing home. Before visiting Cecil I stopped and talked with some of the nurses inquiring into Cecil's overall health and state of mind. I had not seen Cecil in several years at that point. The nurse told me that Cecil was "starving himself to death." They couldn't get him to eat or drink anything and he was refusing all attempts of trying to keep him alive. So I visited Cecil in a dark and lonely room. It was in the evening hours around supper time. Upon entry into the room, Cecil asked who I was. I stood there in the darkened doorway and told him, "Paul". He immediately knew who "Paul" was and asked me to come in and close the door. Sitting in the dark beside Cecil's bed, we reminisced about the good times. Cecil was bright, alert, inquisitive, even talkative. I thanked him quietly there in the dark just for being Cecil. And, as I recall, he said in a quiet and reserved way "you're welcome, you're all welcome." When I left the nursing home I went directly to Palmers Big Star and bought all the Campbell's soup I could. I spent every penny I had on me for lots and lots of soup. I carried it back to the nursing home and talked with the nurse again, telling her of Cecil's eccentric ways and his love of Campbell's soup. They immediately warmed up a bowl of soup for him and were delivering it to him as I turned to leave. Knowing Cecil, I doubt seriously that he ate any of it. Once Cecil set his mind to something, he was one of the most focused and single issue-minded persons I have ever known, and I knew that at that point he had one thing on his mind and that was leaving this world. It seemed odd to me. It seemed inadequate of me. It seemed pointless, but important to me that I said a final "thank you" to Cecil for all he had done for me with a couple of grocery bags of Campbell's soup. I attended Cecil's funeral and heard several wonderful tributes from more of Cecil's kids. People who came before me and people who came after me shared the same feelings of genuine gratitude for the kindness and life lessons taught to us by the bachelor we all called Cecil. Some happy memories include... Ken Mitchell and I were his favorites. No really, we were, we must have been. He never tired of teaching us how to play ball. Every day, and I mean every day, before the park opened, Cecil would be hitting us fly balls or pepper or playing catch with us. Cecil would have been in his mid-50's then, and he never hesitated to grab a ball and a bat and give Ken and me a workout. If you go to the back side of his garage today, you'll find those cypress boards dented and split from many, many hours of Cecil trying to teach me to control my fastball. Eventually, one morning he told me, "Paul, I can't catch you any more. Your fastball is just too quick for me, and you haven't learned a darn bit of control." That was Cecil to me. He did all he could. He took me as far as he could. He encouraged me to keep trying and told me that I had talent. When Cecil bragged on your fastball, brother, it meant something. Hikes...that's right, just the joy of walking in the woods with Cecil. Cecil would take us into the woods and show us nature. Sometimes we'd walk as many as 10 miles or more. He'd make the trails and trees and grapevines and hollers interesting and historical. We'd look for arrow heads, cannon balls, Civil War relics. He'd teach us which berries we could eat and which ones we couldn't. If you got to go on one of Cecil's hikes, you were indeed one of a very small, special group. He taught Ken and me to shoot, to fish, to swim, to hunt, and to be conservationists. And, if you ever got to go on one of Cecil's night hikes, you were indeed one of the chosen few. Remember the carbide lights, the glow worms and lightning bugs, the treed possums and the very rare treed coon. Remember the survival skills he taught us--every thing from first aid for cuts or snake bites to finding your way back home in the dark out of a set of woods that you'd never seen before? The Tennis Court...yes, we all loved the tennis court. Did you know that as very young boys, Ken and I actually worked side by side with Cecil hauling red clay from one of the embankments behind his pecan grove? I remember working with that shovel day after day, never complaining and never asking how long this was going to take. Shoot, Ken and I felt it an honor just to be included, and we got to ride on the side boards of that Model T. Yes, he still had it and he pulled a small trailer loaded with red clay dirt back and forth through the pecan grove, literally hundreds of times. I'm going to say that Ken and I were probably only 7 & 9 years old at the time. Don't you know we were lots of help? Our pay was a cold Pepsi and a "thank you" at the end of the day. Parched pecans and rook...another, very special activity, reserved for only a few. On rainy days, a few times, Cecil would let a few of us come into his house and play Rook. He'd parch pecans and we'd laugh and enjoy such sweet and wonderful hours together. Campouts and scaring the girls...Cecil used to let the boys camp out every now and then. He'd fashion us a tent from old canvas placards left over from his semi-pro baseball promoter days. Draped over a low hanging pecan limb, we'd spend the evening hours listening to owls and other scary noises in the dark. He'd even let us build a fire, but only under strict supervision and orders, which we always followed to the letter. Occasionally, Cecil would let the girls camp out. No boys allowed, except he'd get Ken Mitchell, Rodney Rogers and me to come scare 'em. We had all kinds of elaborate and choreographed schemes. We'd spend hours before the girls got there just setting up noise makers and plans. Cecil would have us come at a designated time. He'd be telling a ghost story around the campfire, and on cue we'd chime in with our prescribed parts. Trouble was, after a few times the girls were no longer afraid and they'd chase us through the dark back to the boundaries of Cecil's pecan grove. Ever jumped a barbed wire fence in the dark with Susan Williams and Gloria Temple in hot pursuit? I have. Remember the Halloween walks. These were an extension of what we learned about running ropes and wires through the trees to hang ghosts and goblins on. Where else but in a simple time and place would the grown men in a small town take the time to set up elaborate Halloween displays, complete with flying witches, trolls, and all manner of scary creatures, just so a community of kids could be ushered around by Cecil after dark? Finally, glow hot air ballons...don't ask me why or how, but somehow Cecil and I came up with the idea of sending hot air ballons up at night. I think this started out as a science fair project and when I showed it to Cecil, he became a "partner in crime". We'd take dry cleaning bags, the taller ones worked best, and fashion a frame work around the bottom out of fine copper wire. Under this we'd hang a small wire basket filled with cotton balls soaked in a mixture of rubbing alcohol and lighter fluid. We'd wait until a very calm night and from behind the pecan grove somewhere we'd light the cotton balls and set these things aloft. We put a lot of work into experimenting with various size bags and wire and fuel solutions. Cecil never lost his patience with me, and it is unbelieveable that night after night he and I would try another flight or two. On good flights we'd walk a long ways in the dark following that glowing hot air bag, calculating its distance and flight time. I grew up early, I think. I left Plantersville, home and Cecil's at basically 17, but Cecil and Cecil's have never left me. I've often thought of writing a book about Cecil, about submitting his name and memory to some "hall of fame", or of erecting a living monument or exhibit to honor the man many of us grew up with. Paul Johnson 5/15/2007 8:19 AM 5/10/2007 Welcome to the new site!This is the beginning of what we hope will be a community project. George and I each have our own personal blogs. His is The Plantersville Connection, and mine is Ms. Sippi. Obviously, we are proud of our roots. So many have contributed their memories and old pictures, especially to his site, that I wanted to find a format where the pictures and written accounts could be shared more easily. The albums here are compilations of pictures we have collected from many sources. Viewing them is sure to stir old memories. Please take a moment to write down some of your favorite ones and send them to us. Don't think of this as Cathy and George's website; think of it as an expansion of The Plantersville Connection, a virtual museum. Your old pictures, your thoughts and memories are needed and appreciated. We hope to see the collection grow and will try to keep up to date with whatever you send. There is a guestbook at the bottom, so please sign it and let us know what you think. And you can add comments for each blog or for any picture. If you want to write a post for the blog, we'd like that, too; just send it to us. Registration is required for comments and the guestbook, but it's free. Cathy's e-mail address is magarr@bellsouth.net George's is gkelly100@comcast.net If you have trouble finding a place to add your name, as LaRue did on the first comment, just add your name to the end of your message. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Honor your mother or grandmother on Mother's Day May 13th with a couple of paragraphs about her most admirable qualities. We'll post them here thru May 20th. And may all you mothers have a Happy Mother's Day! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- MARK YOUR CALENDAR A reunion of Plantersville residents and former residents is being planned for July 28. Where will it be? The school? One of the churches? Tombigbee State Park? Estes Fish and Steak House? The mayor's house? Can't have beer at a couple of these. Tombigbee has a big conference center that's air conditioned. Will it be a BBQ/Fishfry/Cookout/Picnic, a catered meal, a White Trash Pot Luck Dinner? It is July, don't forget, and our tolerance for heat and sweat ain't what it used to be. cjg
June Harris remembersBack in the Days
Anyone else remember leggings? And do folks still do fireworks on Christmas Eve? I don't suppose anyone would have bet on the success of a bunch of kids from a little country school like Plantersville in a place like Northeast Mississippi. Still, as I'm fond of pointing out to those who disparage my birthplace, it doesn't matter where you come from and what you've got. It's where you go and what you do with it that matters. I think we've gone far and largely done right well. Robert Rogers remembers(Regarding the murder of his grandfather and Plantersville postal workers)
You mentioned that my grandmother was appointed Postmaster after his death. From the time my grandfather became Postmaster until I left the job of rural carrier there in 1985, at least one relative of mine worked in that Post Office in some capacity. After my grandmother retired, William Towery "Tack" Grant became postmaster. He was my grandmother's nephew. When he got the opportunity to do so, he took the job of rural mail carrier. He was in that job until I came to it in 1980. Incidentally during part of his tenure, the Postmaster was Carroll Mitchell who was my father's cousin on the Rogers side. So for the major portion of the 20th century I or one of my relatives worked in the Plantersville Post Office. That may not be of interest to anyone else, but it is to me. Jack Price remembersAnother Cecil Johnson Story ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Back in the early 1940’s there was this story being told that involved Ed Parker, Hulon Parker, your (George’s) dad, E.C. Kelly and others, don’t remember their names. This group would meet on weekends at the old RR Depot and play poker. Ed and Hulon thought up a prank that they would pull. They had gotten a pistol that shot blanks and they were going to act as if they got angry at each other, and one would shoot the other. They did this and as one of them fell over mortally wounded, E.C. Kelly fainted!! The prank backfired on them. They thought E.C. had died! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- As told to George by Jack about himself: One Sunday, he rode his bicycle to John Lester Gunter’s house; John Lester wasn't home, and as he rode back, someone, he can't remember who it was, came to the door and told him Pearl Harbor had been bombed. He rode all over Plantersville spreading the news. A couple of men debated where Pearl Harbor was, offering New Orleans and Jackson as possible locations. He said that a number of people in Plantersville later told him that they first learned about the Pearl Harbor attack from him.
Roger Moore remembers(Roger Moore accounts gleaned from The Plantersville Connection.)
"I am Roger Moore, son of Mack Moore and Juanita Rogers Moore and grandson of Achilles Rogers and "Miss Willie" Rogers. I graduated from Plantersville High School in 1945. My first cousin, Robert Rogers, sent your Plantersville Connection blog site to his sister, Elizabeth Rogers Bilbo, who forwarded it to me. Thank you for what you are doing. Thank you for including the story about your mother relating the message about the death of my brother, Mack Jr., to my folks in 1942. Thank you, also, for relating the story of the murder of my grandfather. My mother told me that a Mr. Jones was tried for the murder and acquitted but confessed to the murder on his death bed.
"Thinking of Cecil, I remember my Dad and my Uncle Robert, Robert Rogers' dad, used to play tennis with Cecil at the tennis court that the McDonalds had at their house. They used to play with Lemuel, one of the McDonald boys. Lemuel, as I recall, was a Lt. Colonel in the Army during the invasion of France in World War II. The McDonald's son that was my age was Virgil (Raymond Virgil). Quinlan (Leroy Quinlan) McDonald was at State when I was there. A daughter of the McDonalds, Inez I believe, was an Army nurse and was on Corregidor when the Japanese invaded the Phillippines. She was captured and was a prisoner of war."
Harve Mitchell's store was next door to Arthur and Madge Bailey's house. The store was adjoining the woods across from the Mabry house that you used to walk through to get to your Aunt Grace's house. I got my social security number when I started to work for Harve at this location, working on his peddling truck that went up into the "tater hills" section, down to the Brewer community, and the Richmond area among others. I would box up eggs and put chickens in coops that we carried, as the farmers used eggs and chickens to barter.
My mother's grandfather, Robert (Bob) Henderson Rogers, served [in the Civil War]. My mother used to tell of sitting on his lap when she was a little girl, and he would show her his cap that had a bullet hole through it that was obtained at Shiloh. The attached file is a letter written by him to the Secretary of Interior asking for information about his grandfather, James Rogers, who served in the Revolutionary War. Although R. H. Rogers lived about three miles south of the present Plantersville, his address on the letter is shown as Verona. That confirms your comment about Plantersville not yet being founded at the time he wrote the letter. James Rogers died in Monroe County, near Aberdeen ca. 1843. (See George’s blog Nov.6, 2006 post for copy of the letter.)
5/9/2007 Keith Wadley remembersMy entire family, on my mom's side (the Monts/Temple folks), lived in Plantersville. We had been in Brewer since moving back from Arkansas and dad getting out of the Air Force. We would go to Cecil's park back in the 80's when we would visit Granny and Pappy (Tommy and Sandra Monts). The guys would be playing football, but I was always too little to play, but I sure did want to play. I mainly spent my time in the sandbox or waiting on the pole with the ball hanging off of it. I remember getting angry with an older kid and wanting to fight him. Cecil came over and found out what was going on. He then proceeded to get the boxing gloves for us. I could not believe that I was going to get my chance at beating up this older kid. Well, I did not win the fight, needless to say when you stand 1 foot shorter and a couple of years younger than your opponent. Cecil let the bigger kid go and then pulled me aside. He told me that I was not always going to be able to beat up people to solve my problems. He said that I had to learn how to control my anger and to get along with others. I can't say that I did what he was telling me from that moment on but I certainly did remember it all these years and I did get a lot better about picking my fights, physical and mental. Cecil's park was just a great place to be a kid and to grow up. He was a great man with a lot of love to share. He and Uncle Ed were always fun to listen to. Uncle Ed (Ed Parker) had gotten a keyboard one year. It was one of those that comes preprogrammed with certain tunes in it. Well, along came Cecil one day and Uncle Ed told him that he had gotten a keyboard. Cecil didn't know that Uncle Ed could play (neither did anyone else!). Uncle Ed hit one of the programmed songs and began playing away. Cecil was impressed. I don't know if he told him after he was finished or what but the story got passed on to me at some point and I got a nice chuckle out of it. Those two were always scaring my mother with a fake snake that had fishing line wrapped around it. Uncle Ed would hide it and ask mom to get something for him. She would go to reach for it and Uncle Ed would pull the string. Out came the snake and up jumped mom screaming and hollering like she had gotten ants in her pants. I felt bad for her but at the same time it was fun to watch. I have so many memories of growing up in Plantersville, but mine are from a later generation, probably not the generation you guys are looking for. I remember Mr. Malone's barber shop, working at Quality Discount for a little while, getting large cherry snow cones at The Igloo when it was by Mr. Malone's, and working at Matt's Cafe for Larry and Wanda Matthews. Let me know if you want any other little bits of information or a story about any of those folks. Keith Wadley (son of Bob and Lisa Wadley, grandson of Tommy and Sandra Monts) 5/8/2007 George Kelly remembers
Cecil's Park When I first scrutinized the over one hundred and fifty pictures of people and activities at Cecil’s park that Amy Bostick sent to post on my blog site, I felt not nostalgia but regret since when I was growing up the park didn’t exist. We went to Cecil’s to ride his Model T to the ball park by the railroad and to ride it while he dragged the all dirt infield. When not practicing baseball, we played cards in his old house, and he took us tout line fishing, later cooking the catch in big, black pots at the ball park. We camped out though I can’t recall where, and he took us to Memphis to Rickwood Park to see the Chicks play, and then to the zoo at Overton Park. The only photograph I have of any of these activities is a picture of Larry Mims and me in a cardboard cutout jail. At some point Cecil tore down his old house and built the new one and cut down several trees and built a clay tennis court, and we played tennis, though I was usually just a spectator. I was away from Plantersville when Cecil began to develop his park and missed the horse back rides, the checker matches, the ping pong, basketball and football games and all the other activities. But after contemplation, regret gives way to gratitude. I had an opportunity to spend more intimate moments with Cecil than some who followed; there were never more than three or four boys (yes,only boys), playing at his house, or going on trips with him, not the scores of boys and girls who came later. All of us who grew up in Plantersville during Cecil’s years have our own special memories of spending time at his place and with him. 5/7/2007 Cathy Johnson Garrett remembers
COUNTRY CLUBS Not many country kids grew up with the advantages we enjoyed in Plantersville. Tupelo may have had its Country Club, complete with golf course and swimming pool, but they didn't have anything like Cecil's Park. It started with a clay tennis court built around 1955. Cecil Johnson, a 47 year old bachelor at the time, had been coaching boys' baseball teams; but as the number of boys, who could meet the age requirements and play baseball, dwindled, he decided to build a tennis court and get all the youth of our town involved. Luckily, his home site, located directly across the street from our house, included a pecan grove that covered many acres, and the trees were spaced far enough apart that a regulation-sized court (he would have had nothing less) could be situated among them. Cecil accepted very little help in the building of his tennis court because he was such a perfectionist and wanted to make sure every detail was up to standards. Tennis racquets were secured by those who were interested and tennis lessons from Cecil began. Interest in the game developed quickly among the many spectators, and soon the tennis court was the most popular spot in town. Everybody wanted to learn the game, play the game, win the tournaments; it was the fun place to be. Old church pews lined the shady side of the court where fans gathered and children played. Many in the crowd lived close-by and had walked to the park; some rode bikes, others drove. It was not unusual on Saturday and Sunday afternoons to see 20 cars parked in Cecil's driveway, his backyard, and along the roadside, and most had arrived with 3 or 4 people in each car. For a small town, it was a large crowd of all ages with much excitement. You were there or you were "square!" It didn't take Cecil long to realize the need to make other games available for his guests. A basketball goal was installed, then a croquet court, then a shuffleboard court. Every year, he added a new attraction. A large schoolyard-sized swing set was installed, a maypole, a merry-go-round, a BIG SLIDE. He built a huge sandbox for the small children and a half-court sized practice board for tennis players. There was a chin-up bar where children worked so hard to master that simple feat of strength, and Olympic rings where they learned acrobatics. He built a pavilion that held two ping-pong tables, and a table for board games and card games. In the vast, open spaces, there were kids pitching baseballs, or playing football or tossing Frisbees. Those who owned horses frequently rode them to the park and shared them with their friends. Several pecan trees offered the climbers among us serious challenges. Occasionally, a group of kids would organize "camp-outs" and spend the night in tents at the park. Cecil allowed help with marking off the tennis court, but that was about all the help he would accept. Rather than letting kids rush carelessly into his garage to get croquet or shuffleboard or ping-pong equipment, he usually selected one child to do it, considered quite an honor by all. At the end of the day, that same person had to collect everything, make sure no parts were missing, and put it all back like they found it. Flattened ping-pong balls cost the flattener a dime. Cold Pepsi-Colas were available for a quarter. Every game had rules and no fudging was allowed. Cecil had park rules - no fighting, no cussing, no poor sportsmanship, strict open and close time, and everybody knew the rules and kept them. Loosely, it was 3 strikes and you're out, expulsion, and he had to expel very few. Every once in a while a couple of boys might have a disagreement that resulted in a fight. Cecil had them don boxing gloves, while he used their anger and energy to teach them basic boxing moves and self-defense. He maintained order that way, single-handedly, and everybody had a good time. And who paid for this playground paradise? Ninety-five percent of it was paid for by Cecil himself. Oh, the churches donated small sums each year to apply toward the purchase of new equipment, but Cecil was the sole owner and caretaker of the park. If I had a nickel for every drop of sweat he put into maintaining that place, I'd be a millionaire. It was a private park on private property, and he made it plain to any uninvited guests who mistook it for a public facility. Membership requirements in this "country club" were simple. Any white person known and approved by Cecil was admitted. No membership fee, no monthly dues, just show up and have fun. During the summer, it was open every day from 1 PM until 6 PM, and nobody went over the chain that was stretched across his driveway until he took it down promptly at 1:00 everyday. The only downside to our good fortune was to see the sad faces of the black kids, who were turned away whenever they asked for admission. Wistfully, they would watch us from the street for a few moments, wondering why white kids got all the breaks. It was the 60's, the 70's, the 80's, a time of social upheaval all around us, but Cecil, as far as I could tell, felt no compunction for explaining to them that the park was private, not public, and they were polite in their responses as they turned to leave. Did any of his white friends feel compelled to plead their case for inclusion? Were we cowards, afraid of losing our “privileges," or just blind to the issues of social injustice? Who were we to say who could and could not be the guest of our generous host? Don't get me wrong. There were plenty in my generation who were in favor, even worked for the civil rights of minorities. Schools in our part of the state had been integrated without court order, a phenomenon that came to be called The Tupelo Miracle. Hotels and restaurants began opening to mixed crowds, but Saturday nights found black and white in separate night clubs, and Sunday mornings saw black and white in separate churches, with no obvious interest in change. And so it was at Cecil’s Park. Private property was, after all, private; and old customs and mindsets dictated separation of the races. Maybe we had more in common with Tupelo's Country Club than I realized. cjg
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